How to impress a girl

Dying to know the best ways to get a woman impressed? Impressing a girl is not an easy thought and it definitely needs proper planning. Girls are always attracted only to true caring and not to the fake things. The girls get impressed only with the true natural character. In some cases, guys act as if they are like hero and perform some unwanted action. But the girls are not attracted by those unoriginal things.

The mantra to success here is to be yourself. Be natural, subtle and indirect. Remember, girls like guys who do not try to be like someone else or pretend to be over smart just to impress others. Such things can easily put off girls and could end your quest even before beginning. After all, first impression is often the last impression. Always remember the best approaches are the most natural approaches.

Girls are more interested in the way you make them feel rather than your looks and money. If you can fulfill their emotional needs, you can easily surpass those guys who are more famous, more handsome and richer than you. So how would you stimulate her emotions? Let me point out some top tips. Use Humour, romance, surprises, creativity, intelligence, mystery, unpredictability, attention, care etc.

Girls need a little time to warm up. So don’t be too hurry. It may make an impression of being needy. Build rapport and develop trust first. Make her feel comfortable around you, this will bring down her psychological defences.

Never think you are not good enough to impress her. Don’t let a girl’s preferences affect you in anyway. Don’t wait their approval and don’t change yourself. Guys who require validation are unimpressive and unattractive to girls.

Stop qualifying yourself. It’s a mistake to think that in order to impress a girl, you will need to tell her about the millions you got stashed in a Swiss back, the Lambo set of wheels and how many women you banged last weekend. Bragging will not get you anywhere (even though if the things that you boast about is true). You’ll come across as a total douche bag if you desperately try to qualify yourself.

Instead make her qualify herself, One way to do this is to challenge her by asking her leading questions. “So what do you do for fun?” This seemingly innocent question will make her to rethink her answers so that she come across to you as a spontaneous, fun-loving person. “Apart from looking good, what makes you different from other women?” This puts her in the frame of mind that she needs to come across as “better” than other women. “If you were at kissing school, how would your teacher rate you?” If she says “Grade A, of course!”, then tell her to prove it to you.

Be casual,  It is not necessary that you should be very attractive and good looking. If you show your original character and the true nature you can always impress a girl. Some guys think that the dressing sense of the guys attracts the girls to the most. That fact is true but not to a very big extent. Any decent dress will do. Don’t actually try to impress, Being natural is very fine than doing something different to impress a girl. Actually when you approach a girl speak generally and normally. Don’t have a plan in mind to impress the girl. Be yourself and let the things happen automatically. If you plan to impress the girl in the girl in the first sight you will end up with some confusion.

Always lead her, but aware not to become bossy. Lead her physically to a place. Lead her in conversation. Lead and help her to come to a decision. Actively help her overcome what she afraid of. Be decisive in your words, opinions and actions. But let me remind again, be a leader not a boss. A leader respect, love and care for his followers.

Try to kick start a conversation, which in turn may and often does lead to the start of a relationship. But to be able to talk something that makes sense, you would have to be intelligent and know about various interesting things. Show interest in her and let her talk, when you approach a girl don’t think that she will be attracted only when you talk in the pleasing manner. Actually girls are more attracted to the person who doesn’t speak much. When you approach a girl you show maximum interest on her and you let her talk to the maximum. If she asks you on why you are silent, tell her that you are enjoying what she is speaking. These factors will help you to create a serious place for you in her heart.

Usually respect is the common thing that has to be taken seriously. Give respect and take respect. In the case of girls, mingle with them in some sort of respect. Do right things at the right time in the right manner. Respect will be more helpful in creating a bond between you and the girl.

Girls are not impressed by the heroism that we show to them. The natural talents will be more than enough to attract a particular girl. If the girls are focusing much on the money you have, then they probably love your money and not you. Natural talents are the one with which you present yourself in front of her.

Show your difference, the girls are attracted to the most if you show them something that is different. All the guys will possess some normal character that everyone has but the girls are impressed by some different thing that you have apart from others.  Try to show some difference from others such that the girl sticks to you lifelong.

Another thing that most guys are usually careless about is personal hygiene. Try to dress smartly and comb your hair properly as an untidy looking person can be a put-off for anybody.

The main thing to be noticed in a boy-girl relationship is “Men are attracted physically and women are attracted emotionally”.  Make her show some attention to your plus points and see to it that she gets attracted to one of the plus points to a greater extent. Healthy communication is very much necessary. Don’t speak much in front of girls. Have moderate speaking but speak strong points before her. That will help you out to a greater extent.